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Sunday, October 02, 2005
Unbelievably Pissed
Ok, ever since my sister, Sarah got home it's been all about her and how her 8-month relationship disintegrated... I was dealing with it just fine and trying to help her even though my 19-month relationship had gone bub-bye as well. So, in essence I was ignoring my own problems to help her through hers and furthering her self obsession with the whole situation. Everyone has been fawning over her and... Kate has been the only one to try to help me with mine... when, newsflash for those who can't do math, I was with my bf twice as long, and for the most part, the relationship was wonderful and it seemed whenever I saw Sarah and Blaise together they were fighting so it's not like there weren't indications.
Getting to the point... as I said I've been sucking up to her majorly, I even let her eat some of my chocolates from Job *sigh* Those were some great chocolates (that everyone ate, grrrr, my dad helped himself to them when I wasn't around) so we see where I stand in the house. Well last night I went bowling with some peeps and was having an ok time until Mickey got sick but she didn't want to ruin anyone else's time because she was nice so Ben took her home. The major thing that ruined my life was Sarah throwing a tissy that Blaise didn't show up... as if he'd want to show up when he knows his obsessive ex-gf is going to be there, waiting for him. So, she just wouldn't bowl, talk to anyone, pouted, and just threw the ball, and then would sit back down. I tried to cheer her up by dancing, being stupid, trying *key word* to hug her, and almost anything else until I just gave up because it was only getting worse and then she got her way by making us go home... when we'd taken my car there... and it was my car that Ben drove back Mickey in...
Well today Sarah saw Blaise but I know none of the details except for the fact when she came home she was bawling, again so I tried to hug her and she pushed and smacked me away so I just went away. I tried not to let the fact that my sister didn't like me but did like taking out her problems on me bother me but it was hard. Later I went upstairs to get something to eat and walked into the kitchen and Sarah and Ben were sitting at the table and Ben said "Get the fuck out" and so I walked out of the patio doors and sat down on the steps at the far end of the porch and just cried because I felt like shit. Then my mom walked out of the garage and I wiped my face and pretended like I was ok and walked back into the house via front door. I continued in going downstairs and screwing around on the pc, doing absolutely nothing until my father came down and said Ben and Sarah left in Mickey's car. Then I figured it was ok to go upstairs and get some food and as I walked past a front entry window I realized they'd taken my car...
Not Mickey's car OR even Sarah's car (which, would've been the logical thing, in having no obstructions to getting out of the driveway). I was furious.
My car is the only thing I fully own. I've paid for EVERYTHING. Then I found out after asking that my father told Ben he could take my car without asking me. Now, I wouldn't have been (and still am) so pissed had 1. Ben and/or Sarah asked me first (I still would've said 'no' and the common sense answer of 'take Sarah's car' 2. They hadn't been treating me like less than a human... no, that's what Shadow is and they've always treated her better... 3. They at least had the common decency to fucking fill up my tank (I just completely filled it the other day) after running it down.
Then, I got too upset to stay because they'd been gone for 2 hours by the time I found out it was my car they'd taken and I had no means of leaving so I called up Job and told him I needed to get away from my house and the ppl in it (discluding Kate and Mom, and Mickey was actually nice, considering she was shocked and let me use her cell to try to contact them to no avail). Job came by and picked me up. We ended up spending the rest of the day together and just talking and then going to the talent show, which was extremely unfair in judging (Mike, you so got jipped)... how the hell did Ellen and Chet get 1st?! That was disgusting.
Anyway... when I finally came home I saw my car had arrived... safely, I don't know because Sarah and Ben both totalled the two cars my daddy bought them when they started driving, not to mention the rents have covered their insurance since they started driving (one of all things I've paid for myself)- again, 5 yrs for Ben, 7 yrs for Sarah of insurance-free driving. So when I came in the house I asked my mom if she talked to Sarah and Ben about what they did and she just looked at me and said 'yes'- like, it didn't work. I looked at Sarah in the far recliner and asked for an apology and she asked 'an apology for what' and I said 'for stealing my car' and she said 'it's not like I drove it away and never returned' and I said 'no, but it's like you took it without asking for 4 hours, didn't say where you went with it, treated me like absolute shit, and never even felt like replacing the gas you used' and she said 'not like you can even drive it anyway and besides, I'm messed up in the head' and I said 'Suprise Suprise, but you aren't the only one and ever since you came home the fucking world has been revolving around you because you're too selfish to care about anyone else who just might be having problems'.
That's when I stopped because I could've gone on to say something like 'How could you think your 8-month relationship was any more meaningful than my 19-month relationship when Job and I rarely fought and when we did it wasn't serious nor prolonged' but then that would've sounded like some kind of a competition, but in no way did I want it to be like that just that, other people are hurting beside her and she's going to have to realize that if she ever wants to be seriously involved with someone that they're most likely not going to deal with a fucking snob who's so self-centered that she snubs her own family. UNLESS... she finds someone else as self-centered as her, or more, if it's even possible to treat her like absolute shit so she has just an idea of what it's like to be where I am... *her self-centeredness has begun to rub off on me*
Ok, ever since my sister, Sarah got home it's been all about her and how her 8-month relationship disintegrated... I was dealing with it just fine and trying to help her even though my 19-month relationship had gone bub-bye as well. So, in essence I was ignoring my own problems to help her through hers and furthering her self obsession with the whole situation. Everyone has been fawning over her and... Kate has been the only one to try to help me with mine... when, newsflash for those who can't do math, I was with my bf twice as long, and for the most part, the relationship was wonderful and it seemed whenever I saw Sarah and Blaise together they were fighting so it's not like there weren't indications.
Getting to the point... as I said I've been sucking up to her majorly, I even let her eat some of my chocolates from Job *sigh* Those were some great chocolates (that everyone ate, grrrr, my dad helped himself to them when I wasn't around) so we see where I stand in the house. Well last night I went bowling with some peeps and was having an ok time until Mickey got sick but she didn't want to ruin anyone else's time because she was nice so Ben took her home. The major thing that ruined my life was Sarah throwing a tissy that Blaise didn't show up... as if he'd want to show up when he knows his obsessive ex-gf is going to be there, waiting for him. So, she just wouldn't bowl, talk to anyone, pouted, and just threw the ball, and then would sit back down. I tried to cheer her up by dancing, being stupid, trying *key word* to hug her, and almost anything else until I just gave up because it was only getting worse and then she got her way by making us go home... when we'd taken my car there... and it was my car that Ben drove back Mickey in...
Well today Sarah saw Blaise but I know none of the details except for the fact when she came home she was bawling, again so I tried to hug her and she pushed and smacked me away so I just went away. I tried not to let the fact that my sister didn't like me but did like taking out her problems on me bother me but it was hard. Later I went upstairs to get something to eat and walked into the kitchen and Sarah and Ben were sitting at the table and Ben said "Get the fuck out" and so I walked out of the patio doors and sat down on the steps at the far end of the porch and just cried because I felt like shit. Then my mom walked out of the garage and I wiped my face and pretended like I was ok and walked back into the house via front door. I continued in going downstairs and screwing around on the pc, doing absolutely nothing until my father came down and said Ben and Sarah left in Mickey's car. Then I figured it was ok to go upstairs and get some food and as I walked past a front entry window I realized they'd taken my car...
Not Mickey's car OR even Sarah's car (which, would've been the logical thing, in having no obstructions to getting out of the driveway). I was furious.
My car is the only thing I fully own. I've paid for EVERYTHING. Then I found out after asking that my father told Ben he could take my car without asking me. Now, I wouldn't have been (and still am) so pissed had 1. Ben and/or Sarah asked me first (I still would've said 'no' and the common sense answer of 'take Sarah's car' 2. They hadn't been treating me like less than a human... no, that's what Shadow is and they've always treated her better... 3. They at least had the common decency to fucking fill up my tank (I just completely filled it the other day) after running it down.
Then, I got too upset to stay because they'd been gone for 2 hours by the time I found out it was my car they'd taken and I had no means of leaving so I called up Job and told him I needed to get away from my house and the ppl in it (discluding Kate and Mom, and Mickey was actually nice, considering she was shocked and let me use her cell to try to contact them to no avail). Job came by and picked me up. We ended up spending the rest of the day together and just talking and then going to the talent show, which was extremely unfair in judging (Mike, you so got jipped)... how the hell did Ellen and Chet get 1st?! That was disgusting.
Anyway... when I finally came home I saw my car had arrived... safely, I don't know because Sarah and Ben both totalled the two cars my daddy bought them when they started driving, not to mention the rents have covered their insurance since they started driving (one of all things I've paid for myself)- again, 5 yrs for Ben, 7 yrs for Sarah of insurance-free driving. So when I came in the house I asked my mom if she talked to Sarah and Ben about what they did and she just looked at me and said 'yes'- like, it didn't work. I looked at Sarah in the far recliner and asked for an apology and she asked 'an apology for what' and I said 'for stealing my car' and she said 'it's not like I drove it away and never returned' and I said 'no, but it's like you took it without asking for 4 hours, didn't say where you went with it, treated me like absolute shit, and never even felt like replacing the gas you used' and she said 'not like you can even drive it anyway and besides, I'm messed up in the head' and I said 'Suprise Suprise, but you aren't the only one and ever since you came home the fucking world has been revolving around you because you're too selfish to care about anyone else who just might be having problems'.
That's when I stopped because I could've gone on to say something like 'How could you think your 8-month relationship was any more meaningful than my 19-month relationship when Job and I rarely fought and when we did it wasn't serious nor prolonged' but then that would've sounded like some kind of a competition, but in no way did I want it to be like that just that, other people are hurting beside her and she's going to have to realize that if she ever wants to be seriously involved with someone that they're most likely not going to deal with a fucking snob who's so self-centered that she snubs her own family. UNLESS... she finds someone else as self-centered as her, or more, if it's even possible to treat her like absolute shit so she has just an idea of what it's like to be where I am... *her self-centeredness has begun to rub off on me*
Mandy ~ 10:46 PM