I find it very funny that my mom will rush out to the phone thinking it's Sarah or Ben and wait up for them half the night when one daughter is crying her guts out in the bathroom. I thought she claimed to be fair to all of us... when she's staying up anyway waiting for Sarah and/or Ben's calls or to come home and I'm sitting there trying to confide in her... Does she knows how much it hurts to be turned down like that by her own mother? My heart physically hurts.